Femdom Exchange Dear Creator Letter
Sep. 13th, 2019 12:01 amHi! Thanks for looking at my letter, whether because you ended up assigned to me or for other reasons; I hope it's helpful. (I am a firm believer in ODAO, though; if you want to ignore everything but the DNWs and follow your own inspiration, I'll be excited to see what you come up with.)
My AO3 name is weakinteraction - same as this dreamwidth. I'm requesting fic or art for all of the below. Given that this exchange matches on Rating as well as fandom and relationship, I've decided to go for E throughout.
General likes and DNWs
Here are a few things I always like in femdom, either alone or combined:
Given that this is the sort of area where people have strong opinions, I thought it might be worth expressing some things where I am pretty flexible and open to a wide range of stuff:
DNWs:
Sid Meier's Alpha Centauri
Corazon Santiago doms Deirdre Skye, Deirdre Skye doms Corazon Santiago
Anything at all riffing off the "Very well, but you must swear a pact to serve me." thing extremely welcome. BDSM as extension of Planetary politics, or just something the two of them do to wind down from the pressures of being a faction leader in a scenario where they're allied. Use and misuse of telepathic powers very welcome too, up to and including involving Planet and/or mind worms if you want.
Doctor Who (1963)
Nyssa of Traken doms Tegan Jovanka, Tegan Jovanka doms Nyssa of Traken
I like the idea of this as both of them being enthusiastic about finding out about the other's way of doing things (feel free to make up whatever Trakenite cultural stuff you want). Alternatively, something more on the serious end of the scale about them processing the trauma that canon puts them through but then tends to ignore. Nyssa using gadgetry a definite plus.
(Very!) Specific DNW: Season 19b; I'm not keen on the idea of them having spent that long apart from Nyssa's point of view.
The Good Fight (TV)
Marissa Gold doms Maia Rindell
File this under "did not know I needed it until I saw it in the tag set". I could see this working multiple ways: some sort of undercover scenario when Marissa's investigating a case for Maia; late night drinking session spontaneously turning into something more; or Marissa going and hunting down Maia post-S2 for reasons that she doesn't fully understand herself until they meet up again. Or if there's something I haven't thought of but you have, go for that too.
Star Trek: The Next Generation
Beverly Crusher doms Jack Crusher & Jean-Luc Picard, Beverly Crusher doms Jean-Luc Picard
For whatever reason, I see Beverly doing a lot of teasing in these scenarios. For the OT3, I'm happy with it being something that happened at the Academy (either a one-off or on a regular basis), or in a Jack-lives AU. For Picard/Crusher, feel free to put them together whenever suits. I do like the "only one who can relieve you of command" thing, for what it's worth.
Deanna Troi & Ro Laren dom William Riker, Deanna Troi doms William Riker & Ro Laren
I see this spinning out of that conversation at the end of Conundrum, but any other time when they're all on board together is great too. I see Riker being very enthusiastic, whatever happens.
Mirror Beverly Crusher doms Jean-Luc Picard, Mirror Deanna Troi doms William Riker
Feel free to go dark for either of these, and to use any version of the Mirrorverse you want (so either straightforward extrapolation of the 23rd Century Empire a la that Diane Duane book or the DS9 version or some other quantum reality of your own invention). Feel free to have as much or as little plot around people travelling between universes as you want.
Deanna Troi doms Worf
It's established pretty thoroughly that Betazed is matriarchal and that Klingon sex is often pretty femdom so I think they would fall into this without too much difficulty. Might be fun if Worf finds a way to throw a fight to set things up (or have Deanna's empathic abilities give her an unexpected edge so that she actually beats him for real?).
Keiko O'Brien doms Miles O'Brien
To be honest, this doesn't feel so much like a tag as a statement of fact. Feel free to take this in any direction you want, really.
Star Wars (Marvel Comics)
Magna Tolvan doms Chelli Lona Aphra
Dynamics I'd be particularly interested in here: for early in the relationship, it being clear that Aphra wants to be dommed but is never going to admit it; for later on, Aphra overinterpreting things as some form of atonement when Tolvan doesn't see it the same way.
Feel free to go heavy on the angst for these two if that's the direction you want to take it, given everything that's happened to/between them in canon.
Star Wars Sequel Trilogy
Jessika Pava doms Rey, Rey doms Jessika Pava
I think I see this mostly in a blowing-off-steam way (e.g. having a bet on racing their respective ships, or something like that), but other possibilities definitely exist. For the dom!Jess version I could also go for something more serious about how as Rey becomes stronger in the Force she worries about the pull of the Dark Side and wants the security of being dommed. On the other hand, for the dom!Rey version, Dark Side Rey very welcome but not required.
My AO3 name is weakinteraction - same as this dreamwidth. I'm requesting fic or art for all of the below. Given that this exchange matches on Rating as well as fandom and relationship, I've decided to go for E throughout.
General likes and DNWs
Here are a few things I always like in femdom, either alone or combined:
- Costumes, in all sorts of different contexts, but particularly boots
- Bondage
- Impact play
- Edging/orgasm control/etc.
- Bets, forfeits, etc.
- The domme getting herself off while sub is restrained or under orders not to do anything, however much they might want to
- Subs putting on a show for their domme, either following detailed instructions or being told to come up with something to entertain her
- (For ships where they work together) playing around with organisational hierarchies
Given that this is the sort of area where people have strong opinions, I thought it might be worth expressing some things where I am pretty flexible and open to a wide range of stuff:
- Any level of formality all the way from 24/7 D/s to "OK we weren't expecting this to end up like this but it's hot" or anything in between is great
- I'm fine with switching (indeed, some of these ships I've requested in both directions), including implied/stated "this isn't like last time when you topped" or "next time we're going to switch" for F/M pairings, though obviously given the focus of the exchange I wouldn't want that to be a huge element
DNWs:
- character or ship bashing
- non-canon-divergent AUs like coffee shops, A/B/O, etc. (canon-divergent ones, on the other hand, are always a big yes)
- pregnancy/kidfic
- watersports/scat/emetophilia/bloodplay/breathplay/vore
- violent non-con (coercion/mind control/etc. are fine)
- incest
- underage (which I define as people under 16 having sex)
- and a specific one for this exchange, though it only comes up in my TNG requests in practice: subs in a threesome being forced to engage in sexual activity that's against their orientation (i.e. basically please make everyone in that sort of situation bi)
Sid Meier's Alpha Centauri
Corazon Santiago doms Deirdre Skye, Deirdre Skye doms Corazon Santiago
Anything at all riffing off the "Very well, but you must swear a pact to serve me." thing extremely welcome. BDSM as extension of Planetary politics, or just something the two of them do to wind down from the pressures of being a faction leader in a scenario where they're allied. Use and misuse of telepathic powers very welcome too, up to and including involving Planet and/or mind worms if you want.
Doctor Who (1963)
Nyssa of Traken doms Tegan Jovanka, Tegan Jovanka doms Nyssa of Traken
I like the idea of this as both of them being enthusiastic about finding out about the other's way of doing things (feel free to make up whatever Trakenite cultural stuff you want). Alternatively, something more on the serious end of the scale about them processing the trauma that canon puts them through but then tends to ignore. Nyssa using gadgetry a definite plus.
(Very!) Specific DNW: Season 19b; I'm not keen on the idea of them having spent that long apart from Nyssa's point of view.
The Good Fight (TV)
Marissa Gold doms Maia Rindell
File this under "did not know I needed it until I saw it in the tag set". I could see this working multiple ways: some sort of undercover scenario when Marissa's investigating a case for Maia; late night drinking session spontaneously turning into something more; or Marissa going and hunting down Maia post-S2 for reasons that she doesn't fully understand herself until they meet up again. Or if there's something I haven't thought of but you have, go for that too.
Star Trek: The Next Generation
Beverly Crusher doms Jack Crusher & Jean-Luc Picard, Beverly Crusher doms Jean-Luc Picard
For whatever reason, I see Beverly doing a lot of teasing in these scenarios. For the OT3, I'm happy with it being something that happened at the Academy (either a one-off or on a regular basis), or in a Jack-lives AU. For Picard/Crusher, feel free to put them together whenever suits. I do like the "only one who can relieve you of command" thing, for what it's worth.
Deanna Troi & Ro Laren dom William Riker, Deanna Troi doms William Riker & Ro Laren
I see this spinning out of that conversation at the end of Conundrum, but any other time when they're all on board together is great too. I see Riker being very enthusiastic, whatever happens.
Mirror Beverly Crusher doms Jean-Luc Picard, Mirror Deanna Troi doms William Riker
Feel free to go dark for either of these, and to use any version of the Mirrorverse you want (so either straightforward extrapolation of the 23rd Century Empire a la that Diane Duane book or the DS9 version or some other quantum reality of your own invention). Feel free to have as much or as little plot around people travelling between universes as you want.
Deanna Troi doms Worf
It's established pretty thoroughly that Betazed is matriarchal and that Klingon sex is often pretty femdom so I think they would fall into this without too much difficulty. Might be fun if Worf finds a way to throw a fight to set things up (or have Deanna's empathic abilities give her an unexpected edge so that she actually beats him for real?).
Keiko O'Brien doms Miles O'Brien
To be honest, this doesn't feel so much like a tag as a statement of fact. Feel free to take this in any direction you want, really.
Star Wars (Marvel Comics)
Magna Tolvan doms Chelli Lona Aphra
Dynamics I'd be particularly interested in here: for early in the relationship, it being clear that Aphra wants to be dommed but is never going to admit it; for later on, Aphra overinterpreting things as some form of atonement when Tolvan doesn't see it the same way.
Feel free to go heavy on the angst for these two if that's the direction you want to take it, given everything that's happened to/between them in canon.
Star Wars Sequel Trilogy
Jessika Pava doms Rey, Rey doms Jessika Pava
I think I see this mostly in a blowing-off-steam way (e.g. having a bet on racing their respective ships, or something like that), but other possibilities definitely exist. For the dom!Jess version I could also go for something more serious about how as Rey becomes stronger in the Force she worries about the pull of the Dark Side and wants the security of being dommed. On the other hand, for the dom!Rey version, Dark Side Rey very welcome but not required.